Should there be secrets in relationships?

[Gily]

Keeping a secret is often a form of dishonesty. That being said, keeping a secret means purposefully not sharing information with your partner, while hiding something means actively trying to deceive them. Leaving out important facts can lead to further deception or betrayal.

Keeping secrets is more common in many relationships. Couples keep secrets thinking they are protecting their relationships. Perhaps they are or they are not.

What are your thoughts for patners keeping secrets in relationships? Is it okay for husbands and wives to keep secrets from each other?

 

[Kondeni0112]

Sometimes keeping secret is safer way to keep relation alive.

NB: Secret is not equal to lying

 

[February girl]

Itategemea na siri yenyewe

 

[Leejay]

Kuna vitu bora ufe navyo maana unaweza ukasema ukidhani unaimarisha mahusiano kumbe unabomoa

 

[Kondeni0112]

Kuna vitu bora ufe navyo maana unaweza ukasema ukidhani unaimarisha mahusiano kumbe unabomoa

Kabsaa

 

[Leejay]

Kabsaa

Yeah ni kweli...

 

[Kondeni0112]

Yeah ni kweli...

Kuna vitu ukiwaambia watu, automatic unaanza kuwa dhaifu

 

[Leejay]

Kuna vitu ukiwaambia watu, automatic unaanza kuwa dhaifu

Halafu wataanza kutumia kama fimbo kukuadhibu kila utakapokosea

 

[Kondeni0112]

Halafu wataanza kutumia kama fimbo kukuadhibu kila utakapokosea

Yah! Siri ni zamuhimu, hata Mungu anayo siri.. mbinguni kuna siri, siku ya mwisho ni siri... kila kitu ni siri jamani..

 

[Leejay]

Yah! Siri ni zamuhimu, hata Mungu anayo siri.. mbinguni kuna siri, siku ya mwisho ni siri... kila kitu ni siri jamani..

Kuna baadhi ya siri naona kabisa nitakufa nazo kwakweli

 

[Kondeni0112]

Kuna baadhi ya siri naona kabisa nitakufa nazo kwakweli

Uwez jua kuna siku utalewa uanze kuropoka siri zote..

 

[Leejay]

Uwez jua kuna siku utalewa uanze kuropoka siri zote..

Uzuri situmii kilevi

 

[Kondeni0112]

Uzuri situmii kilevi

Goood

 

[Leejay]

Goood

Yeah